What is what to say when someone calls you sexy?

Here's some information about how to respond when someone calls you sexy:

Responding to being called "sexy" is highly dependent on the context, your relationship with the person, and your personal comfort level. Here's a breakdown of possible approaches:

1. Assess the Situation:

• Who is it? Is it a close friend, a romantic partner, a stranger, a colleague? The relationship dictates appropriate responses.
• Where are you? Public or private setting impacts your comfort level.
• How was it said? Was it playful, sincere, or potentially harassing? Tone and body language are crucial.

2. Possible Responses:

• If you're comfortable and appreciate it (e.g., from a partner):

  • A simple "Thank you!" with a smile.
  • "I'm glad you think so."
  • Reciprocate the compliment: "You're looking pretty good yourself!"
  • A playful "I know!" (said with humor).
  • Teasing: "Oh, stop it, you!" (said playfully)

• If you're uncomfortable or unsure (e.g., from a stranger or acquaintance):

  • A polite but neutral "Thank you." (This acknowledges the comment without encouraging further advances.)
  • Ignore the comment. (Sometimes the best response is no response, especially if you feel unsafe).
  • Change the subject. (Redirect the conversation to a neutral topic.)
  • Assertiveness: "That's not appropriate." or "I'd prefer you didn't say that." (Be direct and clear if you feel uncomfortable.)

• If it's bordering on harassment or is clearly inappropriate (e.g., from a colleague, superior, or anyone causing you distress):

  • "That's inappropriate and unprofessional."
  • "I'm not comfortable with that kind of comment."
  • Setting%20Boundaries: "Please don't make comments like that to me again."
  • Report the behavior to HR or the appropriate authority. (Document the incident.)

3. Key Considerations:

• Your Comfort is Paramount: You are never obligated to respond in a way that makes you uncomfortable.
• Body Language: Your non-verbal cues communicate a lot. Maintain eye contact if you're being assertive, or avoid it if you want to shut down the conversation.
• Humor: Humor can diffuse awkward situations, but be mindful of whether it might be misinterpreted as encouragement.
• Consider the Intention: Sometimes, a compliment is just a compliment. However, be aware of the possibility of ulterior motives.
• Safety First: If you feel threatened or unsafe, prioritize your safety. Remove yourself from the situation if possible.
• Consent: Being called "sexy" is not an invitation for anything more. Consent is essential for any further interaction.